Breastfeeding: Stories to Inspire and Inform

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This week (24th-30th June) is National Breastfeeding Week. The aim of NBW is to raise awareness of the health benefits of breastfeeding, increase social acceptance and promote support for breastfeeding. This week also sees the publication of Breastfeeding: Stories to Inspire and Inform; a collection of stories from breastfeeding mums detailing their experiences nursing their babies, put together by Susan Last.

There’s something quite fascinating in reading how diverse breastfeeding relationships can be, even where mums have had multiple babies. This reinforces my own discovery that different babies are… well, different. Fascinating too that virtually every mum, no matter how ambivalent to breastfeeding they may appear to be at the start of each story, quickly becomes emotionally invested in this intimate act of primal bonding.

What is really reflected in each story is how important support is to the breastfeeding mum; it can’t be coincidence that mums who talk about pressure to bottle feed from family members are the same mums who talk about early cessation of breastfeeding. I can’t be more grateful that I have a family who sees breastfeeding, even “prolonged” feeding as one mum refers to it, as normal rather than something to be wrapped up as quickly as possible. One mum herself talks about this, reflecting on her own experience gathering support through Mumsnet which ultimately led to her becoming a breastfeeding peer supporter.

As an experienced breastfeeding mum (my own story could easily double the size of this book!) I found myself nodding away to various snippets, sharing out loud my own advice as if these mums could hear or indeed make use of my belated words of wisdom(!) Unfortunately I also found myself sighing and shaking my head at others… the obsession with ending feeding at 6 months, and myths about milk quality and quantity in particular. Thankfully (for my blood pressure) common myths are highlighted with an asterisk to advise readers that evidence-based knowledge disagrees and the issues are then covered in the “Exploding some common myths” section.

I definitely think this book is one to add to the library of texts I recommend to new mums, if nothing else than to offer reassurance that there is a huge range of what is ‘normal’ feeding. The honest sharing of real-life experiences does far more to encourage and support struggling mums than any clich├ęd “breast is best” slogan and that, to me, epitomises National Breastfeeding Week.

Jem Turner +44(0)7521056376

3 comments so far

  1. Susan Last said:

    Thanks so much for your positive comments about the book – really glad it struck a chord with you. Loved the idea that you wanted to talk back to the contributors!

  2. Nat Marie said:

    When I admitted defeat with my daughter’s breastfeeding…fiasco, I felt like a fail mom. I wanted to breastfeed her so bad, but it just wasn’t meant to happen. Like you said though, different babies are different; I may have failed with this one, but the next one may be better (read: not a piglet that yelled because I couldn’t produce milk fast enough, LOL).

    I might take a look at that book and maybe buy it in the future. It’s always interesting to read others’ stories about…anything, and perhaps it would give me ideas as well for the next one.