BarbiLee Brings on the W-T-Fs


With the coming of 2008 I’m “celebrating” about 8-9 years on the Internet. In this time I’ve seen some pretty loony people. I’m sure the majority of you are familiar with Krystole, the Internet’s very own layout kleptomaniac? Yep, she’s a bloody loony. Some of you may also know of Janet who owns A self-confessed loony! However, neither of these well known nutters compare on any level to BarbiLee of

BarbiLee is… well, she’s female and I’m pretty sure of that. She’s 23 (says her own site) or possibly 24 (says her doll site profile) — because we all know how confusing your own age can be — and has 2 kids (same doll site profile/another profile) or, actually.. possibly only the one? It really depends on which site you ask! That poor 5 year old boy, he doesn’t have his own website (unlike Jasmine); he doesn’t get posted about in kawaiiville forums (unlike Jasmine); his mummy doesn’t create usernames in his honour like “babygrilmata2007” either.

As well as drastic favouritism to her supposed baby “gril” (mm, baby grill :9) BarbiLee has a major spelling problem. In fact, problem is an understatement of the year. Now, my Dad is dyslexic so don’t think I don’t understand what kind of effect that can have, but this problem is apparently caused by bipolar. I’m no medical professional and my psychological diagnosis skill pretty much hinges on the phrase “she’s loony”, but the last time I checked bipolar wasn’t a learning disability that turned people into total idiots. Although, feel free to correct me if I’m wrong here…

Anyway, I’m bringing you this information on BarbiLee because I want the world to know what a crazy foo’ she is. Even if it doesn’t achieve anything, it’ll make a few people feel better.

BarbiLee has a bit of a vendetta against a girl called Beth. Now, I don’t know this Beth and I don’t know if I’ve ever seen her website, but I do know that Barbi spent time harassing Beth via her tagboard which ultimately resulted in their mutual host deleting Beth’s account. Totally unrelated to this, Vera of left a comment on Barbi’s site complimenting her layout but pointing out her spelling wasn’t doing her any favours. This resulted in Barbi visiting Vera’s site leaving a series of comments accusing Vera of using proxies to get to her site, calling her various names and so on. It’s all a bit uncivilised really (just how I like it). The dates are a bit mixed up in my brain, but basically this two-way back and forth ending up becoming related when Barbi and/or Barbi’s boyfriend pretended to be Beth whilst insulting Vera and vice versa.

So now we have Barbi and her supposed boyfriend Justin bashing Beth and Vera and spamming them with e-mails and comments and accusing them of starting drama. Not one to let the side down, Vera completed an unrequested review of Barbi’s site. It was blunt, but both educational and more than informative. Cue more spam from Barbi and her boyfriend.. only this time she even extended the favour to innocent bystanders V and Belinda!

Somewhere down the line, BarbiLee or her boyfriend managed to find Vera’s whois information and started publishing her home address all over the Internet. In a flurry of desperation, Vera issued an apology for the review and managed to get her host to hide her whois. I believe Barbi’s host was involved and the address details were removed from the public eye.

At this stage, Barbi realises she’s fighting a losing battle spamming the site’s of Vera and so forth (but wouldn’t admit it) and she turns her attention to Kawaiiville, a cutesy forum. She created a series of posts claiming that Vera was a “hatter” (hater) who’d insulted members of Kawaiiville, and a pity post claiming that Vera “says i haked her site“. These posts were all created in an attempt to get sympathy and to make Vera out to be a big bad wolf. Unfortunately for Barbi, I’ve got an account at Kawaiiville and took great delight in disproving some of her/her boyfriend’s bullshit and giving them a public pwning.

During the pwning, I’d persuaded BarbiLee to take down hate messages on her old site against Beth and Vera and pointed out that if she really wanted the drama to end she’d move on with her life. It all seemed to end here… or at least temporarily.

God knows you’re probably confused by now, because I am and I’ve spent 2 months watching this stuff. Basically, at this point we have Barbi and her possibly imaginary boyfriend spamming, posting people’s private information online, harassment via e-mail, pretending to be other people and all the while making threats of “getting the cops in” because Barbi’s the victim. On top of this, we’ve got a blog entry in her Kawaiiville ‘blog’ where she openly admits to having “beat down” a girl and spent time in jail for it. Apparently this makes her an expert on law (but she still asks for illegal serial numbers).

This all culminates in a small ongoing problem. BarbiLee is actively giving away Vera’s home address information via her website. I quote:

i have veras home phone # and address and shit still i will post it hey if you even want to send her a wonderful “gift” e-mail me @ mystical_drama83 {at} yahoo [dot] com i will be more than welcome to give that wonderful info up.

Her host,, was privately contacted about this issue but instead of actually dealing with it like a professional she forwarded the e-mail to Barbi. Nice. I’m glad I don’t host there!

The sad thing is, I know I’ve missed out a whole shitload of crazy antics. I have screenshots of various comments left, around 30-40 links including various forum profiles in which she’s different ages and effectively pretends to be different people. Google’s cached hate pages and contradictory information. We’ve got the e-mail she’s sent out claiming to have called the cops, in which she includes ALL of Vera’s personal info. I’ve got her quoting that Photobucket of all places wants to sue Vera/Beth. It’s fucking ludicrous. Unfortunately, this post won’t solve much of that, but if it tells a few thousand people what kind of scary stalking nutter BarbiLee is, that’s mission accomplished in my book.

Jem Turner +44(0)7521056376

46 comments so far

  1. Holly said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 1:30 am

    Good grief! What a lunatic! I will stay far away from this bizarre individual! I suppose you get all sorts of people on the internet though! o.O

  2. Crystal said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 1:49 am

    Dear god. i got baned from yet aother fourm for sticking up for myself its dumb but now adays if you stick up for you self you are worng you are soput to let faggots call you names and shit That’s from her blog. Did she not graduate from elementary school or something? On the net, attitude and writing style are one of the few ways we can learn about people. This is the worst kind of impression one can leave.

  3. Barbi Lee said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 1:57 am

    omg y doo write bout me n ma baby gril lyke taht!!! lol j/k This is Marie/Cherchez/Hatter here, I didn’t get the whole barbi lee thing until now. Hope it gets resolved soon! Why would people host such little shits? -_-

  4. Sydney said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 2:15 am

    Interesting…I do remember all the crap Krystole and Brianne started way back when…didn’t know stuff like this still happened. Brings back the days when I was 13. Ah, the nostalgia.

  5. Rachel said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 2:25 am

    This stuff is so pathetic…I really wonder how you can possible be bothered with it, even if it is for “entertainment” purposes, Jem. :P

  6. Rachel said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 2:29 am

    And by possible, I meant “possibly” but you can’t tell that to my brain or fingers. Things never cooperate, ever. (Sorry for posting twice in a row!)

  7. Hannah said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 2:35 am

    Lulz. It’s people like her that make me feel intelligent.

  8. Jordie said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 2:45 am

    Hey, it’s the girl from that cute urine rinse website…

  9. Aisling said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 3:53 am

    I changed into comfy clothes and got snacks to read this, and it was certainly entertaining! I can’t wait for her to find it, so that I can sic a moose on her (I am, according to her, a moose f*cker, and I do believe it would be nice to show her some Canadian hospitality. After all, moose need love, and where else are they going to get it, but from mental fuckwits like BarbiLee?).

  10. Melissa said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 4:04 am

    Wow, and I thought the soap opera fandoms had their crazies. They’ve got nothing on this chick.

  11. Jacky said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 4:46 am

    I’m dyslexic, and I struggle with reading and writing but, uhm, as you can see it doesn’t turn me into a babbling moron. Basically, Barbie sounds like one of those people who craves attention and is an expert at “INTERNET LAW”. I feel bad for Vera because she handles this situation like an adult, which seems to be beyond Barbie.

  12. Belinda said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 4:48 am

    Nice summary Jem! At the height of her harassment of Vera (and a little on my blog) I took careful note of the IP addresses she noted down. On the surface of it there were three people at play; herself, Justin and some other dude who all he did was spam stupid insulting remarks. They all had the same IP address. What I found the most WTF was that Barbi kept complaining on her own blog (as well as her bf’s forum) about how this third guy is an imposter and is pretending to be them. Yet that’s just weird if this third guy had their same IP. So there’s some serious(ly amateur) sockpuppeting going on.

  13. Hev said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 5:52 am

    That chick is simply childish and stupid. I am so glad that people here don’t get into that stupid drama. That chick really needs to grow up.

  14. V said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 6:02 am

    This chick is clearly off her head. I pity the children, should they exist outside of her imagination. Wow, talk about the most irresponsible host known to the internet. Yet that’s just weird if this third guy had their same IP. So there’s some serious(ly amateur) sockpuppeting going on. When will morons ever learn to use a proxy for their sockpuppeting purposes? Then again, perhaps it’s a good thing they haven’t figured it out yet.

  15. Mackenzie said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 6:36 am

    Bahahaha. I’d love to say more, but I can’t bring myself to look into this. This is insane. :|

  16. Carly said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 6:36 am

    Barbi wrote some shit in my comments after I’d commented at Vera’s blog (I cannot remember what I said.) But I just deleted it and replaced it with something like ‘I’m a stupid bitch that cannot spell’. Not the most matured of responses, but made me laugh! I could never take someone serious that spells so atrociously, even though I’m not the best speller, at least most of what I write is legible. I don’t understand why a) nobody looks at her whois and send her ‘gifts.’ See how she likes it, or contact candiishit’s reseller host and say that they are both comprimising their terms and conditions of the conract, there are rules about spreading hate, and harrassing others. I’m sure Vera could get some kind of police action involved for the harrassment of posting the details. My phone number and address registered are both wrong because I’ve moved house and had a new phone since last year!

  17. Bubs said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 6:39 am

    hmm… I bet she’s a 12-year old pretending to be 20-something. Her immature actions would embarass many teens!

  18. Carly said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 6:41 am

    Additionally: my site is alsmost done so i am working so heard on this aand recode every thing after beth @ her site hosted buy a dumb whore named vera rember her the one that took it apon her self to write a crack headed rewviw about me Spelling Translation: My site is almost done, so I am working so hard on this, and recoding everything after Beth at her site hosted by a dumb whore named Vera remember her the one that took it upon herself to write a crack-headed review about me. So.. she’s working on her site, after beth? you know the one vera hosts? review? WTF this realllllllllllllllly does not make annnny sense even if you mess around with grammar. She’s just trying to spread hate and is coming across like a right twat.

  19. Vera said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 6:46 am

    @V : they have… unfortunately 9 out of 10 times they use the same proxy… which defeats the purpose of course. Now off to see my comments, I’m expecting “gifts” in my WP moderation queue ^.^

  20. Medli said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 7:08 am

    Wow. Now, that is something completely messed up. Who would have figured that someone would pull that type of craziness just ovr something so simple.

  21. Roxanne said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 8:00 am

    That’s really to bad to hear. Please excuse me for my next comment though, but I laughed my arse off when reading the comments left on Vera’s site. That Barbi girl sure has some issues, you’d think she would at least come up with a better slam word other then ass toy every five seconds. Then again, she can’t spell, so what can be expected? I hope this drama soon finishes up for you Vera! Thanks for the post Jem, I had a few giggles.

  22. Courtney said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 8:24 am

    On her site it says: I had Gastric Bypass Surgery on July 30, 2003. So far, I’ve lost around 150 pounds. My Bloginality is INFJ. I’m sorry that she had to have the surgery but 150 pounds??? That’s more than what I weigh. That’s only 30 pounds below double of me! And what the heck is a bloginatlity?? Barbi is an idiot. And I hope, for Vera’s sake, that everything clears up soon. Well done Jem. Once again, you have written one of my favourite blogs.

  23. Jenny said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 8:32 am

    This chick cracks me up. I went to her site and she still hasn’t learned to spell and she’s still ragging on people for being “cunts”. Wow. Seriously messed up.

  24. Sarah said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 10:21 am

    I bet that girl isn’t in her twenties, more like her pre-teens. She sounds very loony indeed. I know of a few more loony people, too, however I won’t name them. :P

  25. Mumblies said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 11:01 am

    I would suggest that Vera take some legal action against this girl to prevent her from disclosing her personal details. As for Barbi, I am more inclined to think she is just a small minded child seeking attention rather than a bipolar sufferer. Poor Vera, luckily she has you and hopefully many more real friends to help her through this.

  26. Chien Yee said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 11:42 am

    What I’ve read, makes sense that this Barbi Lee is nuts. Plus she accused Vera of using proxies, so why was she (barbilee) silly enough to use the same IP on each comment she gave using different names?

  27. Tish said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 1:11 pm

    And apparently she doesn’t know whether she lost her son or not: and also i lot my son well kinda but not Even after spending half my life on teh wonderful interwebz, I still haven’t come to terms with how idiotic some people can be.

  28. Niki said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 1:52 pm

    realy but i am sorry she statered it and then ran to a mod like a snich she is to cry thats baby bull and i dont care if pople get mad at me when i say this but i hope she never has kids and loses every one of them why? she is a ungrate fucl cunt and needs to be toght a lesson she crays her mommy wont buy her this mommy wont buy her that Look at all those typos… … I’m curious… what do you mean by cutesy forum? I’m a member of and even if the name is all “cutesy”, we are actually very mature about serious topics. ^ Read the answers… She can’t spell “apply”.

  29. Grant said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 2:41 pm

    HAHA! Crazy Woman! It will be some geeky girl who wants a bit of drama, a boyfriend maybe a kid or 2. Tis’ quite funny thou. I’m surprised barbi isn’t over here spamming your site.

  30. Becky said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 3:29 pm

    Online drama is just…pointless?? I try not to get involved. This blog post made me laugh though, thanks for the entertainment, some people really are crazy! lol. She probably is just 12 or something :P

  31. Maz said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 6:36 pm

    And apparently she doesn’t know whether she lost her son or not: Maybe she literally lost him…it wouldn’t surprise me. It’s the little girl I feel sorry for – what chance does she have, really?

  32. Brenda said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 7:17 pm

    Gee, what this girl is doing sounds utterly ridiculous. A nutcase, no doubt. And seriously, her usage of swear language! I always found that excessive usage of swear language indicates a low IQ since they express themselves properly in the normal English language. Ack. Poor Vera. She is definitely the victim in this whole saga.

  33. Jem said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 8:06 pm

    And if you liked this post, you’ll love the follow-up…

  34. Jordan said:
    On December 30, 2007 at 8:11 pm

    Part of me is just hoping this is someone creating and living behind this personality for shits and giggles. It’s just too much to think about that if this person really *is* real, that their brain comprehension is below that of someone around 8 years old. D:

  35. Tiara said:
    On December 31, 2007 at 11:04 am

    sadly, she did it to me… i emailed you :]

  36. Alex said:
    On January 3, 2008 at 4:47 pm

    I think they are both as bad as each other, but I do not agree that she has favouritism over her daughter as having a website at five is pretty odd. Well I have heard alot about this situation as well at last someone has found evidence for both sides. Anyway TTYL Alex.

  37. Nile said:
    On January 4, 2008 at 10:03 am

    Hmm. You do not need to be a webhost to get whois information. It is easily obtainable through any free resources like Domain tools and more. I do not think any apology should be issued. For example, your review of my old site is still up, however, I do not care. Though we took a while, we have come to a peaceable existence, at least to my knowledge. This kind of stuff has been happening for years. I simply say ignore it. It always ends up the same in the end. You could probably do a reverse IP of the webhost and find out where the servers are located and who runs those servers. The webhost is also held accountable for their actions.

  38. Jem said:
    On January 4, 2008 at 2:12 pm

    You do not need to be a webhost to get whois information. ..nobody said you do? I do not think any apology should be issued. So you think someone should be allowed to distribute another’s personal information on their web site and via email – something which contravenes various data privacy laws – as well as get away with calling people “baby killer” (amongst other things). You think they should be allowed to make threats of physical violence and continuously harass someone? Murder has been happening for years, it doesn’t make it right – does it? You could probably do a reverse IP of the webhost and find out where the servers are located and who runs those servers. Already been, done, and taking action.

  39. Tom said:
    On January 10, 2008 at 6:03 pm

    She commented my site saying that one of my hostees has been “harassing” her, so I email her and talk in a 3-way over msn with her and my hostee (Ann). I thought, okay, I’m gonna listen to both sides to be fair, and what happens? BarbiLee turns out to have some sort of mental health problem and turns all physco on me. It was good practise I guess though, as I’ll soon be studying physcology in college and it was alright practising. I’m just worried that because I didn’t take her side, I’llbe the victim next to her spamming. At least with wordpress you can block

  40. Sarah said:
    On January 11, 2008 at 3:09 am

    *waits for BarbiLee to start spamming this entry with comments*

  41. Kat said:
    On January 21, 2008 at 1:49 pm

    Hey… I ran into this girl online once, didn’t know anything about her and commented on her site. Then I looked around a bit more and she turned out to be pretty psychotic. Didn’t know this was already the general consensus. Lol.

  42. Camille said:
    On February 22, 2008 at 9:01 am

    I just have an argument with this girl, see more here: I do think they closed it since I asked to.

  43. ginger said:
    On February 23, 2008 at 1:26 am

    Barbi is telling alot of lies about her son Rennes, which is not true. Barbi was in and out of jail and mental hospitals in Narrowsburg where her so called good boyfriend was doing her, not proper for staff to be doing the patients. She left her son, her x boyfriend of 1 year told her she could see him at school, so she didn’t attack him with any objects, like forks, playstations.As far as x beating her not true, Barbi was the beater. So anyone who buys Barbi’s lies would have to be crazy.the little boy was not beaten, people are making false calls and that is why child was remove, not like her daughter falling out of bed or head first over railings and not taken to hospital to be checked out. So please do not believe any tales that Barbi tells you.

  44. Wally (Walter) Wilson said:
    On April 29, 2008 at 12:23 am

    I found out the hard way…she’s definitely a three-squirrel nutter.

    (You may not want to allow this comment to find a public place — I would totally understand) :-)

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  46. Barbilee said:
    On April 30, 2008 at 2:04 am

    wow this is old and me and jem are cool form what i know i know this is still not going one lolz but why others still have to bring it up? *wonders*